Everything can feel harder when you feel disconnected in your marriage.

Marriage is filled with ups and downs. Yet sometimes the difficulties can build, becoming too hard to work through on your own as a couple.

You and your spouse may:

  • Feel disconnected from each other, like you’re growing apart
  • Struggle to talk openly to each other and feel heard
  • Feel lonely despite being married
  • Be struggling to overcome issues of trust or infidelity
  • Feel uncertain about your marriage’s future

As a result, life may feel less fulfilling, purposeful, and fun. Talking to family or friends about the struggles may be hard, leaving you even more isolated. And while your faith can bring comfort and some insights, finding solutions and a path forward can be challenging on your own. 

You don’t have to struggle with marital difficulties on your own.

Marriage counseling that respects your faith, values, and beliefs can be a step forward toward healing your relationship and reconnecting.

Strengthen your marriage with online marriage counseling in California.

Our licensed Christian marriage counselors are here for you whether you’re newlywed, have been married a few years, or have been together for a long time.

We meet you and your spouse where you’re at in your relationship and provide an open, non-judgmental place for you both to address your relationship challenge. We also understand the importance of taking into account your personal histories, faith, and values as you work through your marital discord.

We use an integrative therapeutic approach that incorporates proven therapies. Techniques and tools including the Gottman Method of Couples Counseling, Gottman Affair Recovery System, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Attachment Therapy. These tools are always filtered through a Biblical Worldview and application.

We help couples work through marital challenges so you can grow closer.

During therapy, our counselors will help you:

Develop effective communication skills

Communication issues are a common source of problems in many marriages. Miscommunication and differing styles of communication can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings that can be hard to fully heal. 

Marriage counseling can help if you’re struggling to express yourself or feel like you’re not being heard. Our licensed counselors can help you and your spouse better understand each other, work through misunderstandings, and develop productive ways of communicating.

Reconnect emotionally

Feeling emotionally connected to your spouse can lead to a deeper understanding of each other and a strong intimacy, contributing to a healthy, lasting marriage. But, feeling disconnected can make you feel adrift and contribute to loneliness and misunderstandings.

Marriage counseling can help you and your spouse emotionally reconnect so you feel part of each other’s lives and goals. Strengthening your emotional connection can revitalize your love for each other and bring you closer together.

Work through relationship conflicts to strengthen your trust in each other.

Relationship conflicts can contribute to feelings of mistrust and hurts that can be hard to heal on your own. Some issues, like infidelity or violations of trust, can shake the foundation of a marriage. Left unaddressed, relationship conflicts can lead to you feeling isolated, unsure of yourself or your spouse, and feeling anxious or sad. 

Our empathic marriage counselors can help you and your spouse address the conflict and provide a safe place to work through your emotions, fears, and worries. We are here to help you process the past hurts, rebuild trust, and heal as a couple. So you can move forward.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

– 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7

You can strengthen your marriage and rekindle your love with online marriage therapy in California.

Our expert Christian marriage and family therapists work with you to help you to remember what brought you together in the first place. We work together, with the Holy Spirit, to create the marriage that God wants for you.